A friend asked me for some advice on moving with kids. Here's what I learned from my recent
move.
1. Check if you can "rent" boxes instead of buying them. Return them and get your money back when you're done. The moving company you use may have this option.
2. We used mostly small boxes, then large, and the least used were medium sized. I think we had about 100 boxes.
3. Unpacking in order of priority: bathroom, youngest to oldest kid's room, kitchen, then your bedrooms. The rest you can do later.
4. Have an idea where you want your furniture and boxes. Make sure the movers put them in the correct room/spot so you don't have to move them later. This will be a full time job for one person. I just stood there as the movers unloaded and told them where each thing went. It saved us a lot of time and backache later.
5. Have tools available for the movers to use so they can take your furniture apart. Even though they know they're supposed to take cribs, bedframes, etc. apart, they never come prepared! And, remember to get your tools back. We think the movers accidentally walked off with Jared's ratchet set.
6. If you can, take the kids to the empty old house then to the new house. It'll help them connect the dots. Even so, Peanut kept on thinking we left things at the old house.
7. Pack suitcases for everyone with 1-2 days worth of essentials (clothes, diapers, toiletries, etc). Moving with kids is so different because you "go live" as soon as you're at the new house and no matter how well you label, you can never find what you need.
8. If possible, get rid of the kids for the 8 hours or so you are moving. Otherwise, find someone who can manage the kids for that entire time. You'll be too busy to keep them from trying to "help".
9. Order pizza for the movers. If it's a hot day, they also like ice cream.
10. Make sure you tell the movers to put down things to protect wood floors, carpet, etc. in your old and new house. Again, they're supposed to, but you might get a lazy crew.
11. Inspect your furniture, appliances, and other expensive stuff before the crew leaves so they can take inventory of damages. It'll save you some headache dealing with the moving company later.
12. Pack all of the "hidden" things first: your junk closets, cabinets, things under the sink, attic, shed, etc. I too find it much more rewarding to pack the things in plain sight because it feels like you've done so much. However, it
really sucks to open a closet packed to the gills with old yoga mats and
DDR pads,
after you've patted yourself on the back.